Traveling across the country can be an exciting adventure, but it also comes with challenges, especially for elderly relatives. With some thoughtful planning and preparation, you can make the journey as smooth and enjoyable as possible. Here are some tips for helping an elderly family member take a trip across the United States.
Research Transportation Options
There are several transportation options to consider when planning cross-country travel with an elderly relative. Evaluate the pros and cons of driving yourself, flying, or using a bus or train.
If you are driving, be sure to plan your routes ahead of time and factor in plenty of rest stops. You may need to limit your daily mileage depending on your relative’s health needs. Consider renting a larger vehicle with comfortable seats.
Flying can reduce overall travel time, but navigating airports can be tiring for the elderly. Arrive early, request wheelchair assistance, and allow time for going through security. A direct flight is preferable to minimize layovers.
The train allows your relative to sit back and enjoy the scenery. Sleeper cars provide space to rest. Just keep in mind longer travel times compared to flying.
Research Destinations and Accommodations
Your route may involve overnight stays in hotels or with family along the way. Research destinations and make lodging reservations well in advance. Request handicap accessible rooms when needed.
To reduce stress, select hotels that offer shuttles, are close to attractions, and have positive reviews regarding cleanliness and service. Ask about early check-in and late checkout.
Pack Wisely
The key is packing light while still bringing necessary medical supplies and equipment. Make a detailed list of medicines, mobility aids, and medical necessities. Bring any paperwork from doctors summarizing your relative’s health status and needs.
Pack clothes that are comfortable and easy to put on. Bring healthy snacks and bottled water. A small cooler is great for keeping food chilled and avoiding constant restaurant meals.
Entertainment for the Road
Long hours in the car can quickly lead to boredom. Create a “trip binder” with maps, games, photos and reading material. Download audiobooks and make driving playlists. Portable DVD players are useful if your relative has vision issues preventing them from reading easily.
Build in Plenty of Breaks
It’s important to schedule regular breaks to get out of the car, stretch your legs, eat, and use restrooms. Stop at least every 2-3 hours. Look for restaurants with senior menus and ADA accessible facilities. Consider sights along the way like parks, visitor centers, or scenic outlooks.
Consider Non-Emergency Transportation Services
If your elderly relative requires significant assistance, you can hire a nurse via a non-emergency medical transport service. This allows your loved one to make the trip comfortably without you having to drive. Research options in advance and get cost estimates – insurance may cover part of the costs.
Cross-country travel with an elderly relative requires planning but it can be done successfully. Build in plenty of time for the trip itself as well as preparation beforehand. Think through their unique needs and make arrangements accordingly. With the proper care and precautions, your family member will be able to make memories on an exciting cross-country adventure.
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