How to develop resilience [INFOGRAPHIC]


Problems and stress are an unavoidable fact of modern life. We encounter it every day, seemingly all the time. They could have many sources, from caring for our children or parents to maintaining a positive balance in the bank to holding down a job. To add to this, there will always be unexpected events – deaths, disasters, illnesses – which can happen without warning. With all of these potential sources of stress, it’s no small wonder many people go through life under a great deal of pressure, frustrated by the many pressures consuming all of us every day. Over a period of time, these stressors, from the trivial to the severe, add up to result in total exhaustion – before you’ve even begun your day.

There is no way to escape stress. It’s a natural part of life in a complex and unpredictable world. However, there are ways in which you can learn to deal with your stress when it is present and to recover more quickly when it has passed. This collection of skills, habits, philosophies, and characteristics is what we call β€œresilience.” These skills make it possible to stay flexible and calm in the face of distress. By learning to become emotionally resilient, you can drastically improve your health, your overall mood, and most importantly, protect yourself against the negative effects of stress.

To be resilient, put simply, means to be able to bounce back after we’ve been knocked down. Emotional resilience refers to the ability to spring back into shape emotionally, after going through a difficult and stressful period of time. Or as Carole Pemberton says, It is  the capacity to remain flexible in our thoughts, feelings and behaviours when faced by a life disruption, or extended periods of pressure, so that we emerge from difficulty stronger, wiser and more able.”

How to develop emotional resilience?

Resilience is not a quality that you either have or do not have; there are some steps you can take to start developing it. To help you achieve this, we put together an infographic with 7 key steps you can take to slowly work on your emotional skills.

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We find ourselves in our own world a lot of the time & lost in thought, even when talking to our loved ones, friends and colleagues. πŸ’­

Mindful communication involves applying the principles of mindfulness to the way we communicate with each other, labelling our thoughts, feelings, and emotions to enhance our awareness. 

By being mindful about how we interact with others, we can become more empathetic, compassionate, and honest. πŸ’—

Find out more ➑️ mindowl.org/mindful-communication/

#meditation #mindfulness #peaceofmind #compassion #selfawareness #wellbeing #mindfulmoment #dailycalm #mindfulcommunication #quietthemind #selfacceptance #practicemindfulness #mindfulmeditation We find ourselves in our own world a lot of the time & lost in thought, even when talking to our loved ones, friends and colleagues. πŸ’­

Mindful communication involves applying the principles of mindfulness to the way we communicate with each other, labelling our thoughts, feelings, and emotions to enhance our awareness. 

By being mindful about how we interact with others, we can become more empathetic, compassionate, and honest. πŸ’—

Find out more ➑️ mindowl.org/mindful-communication/

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If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. 😊

If you want to be happy, practice compassion. πŸ€—

#quote #quoteoftheday #quotestoliveby #motivation #inspiration #inspirationquotes #livinginthemoment #mindfulmoment If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. 😊

If you want to be happy, practice compassion. πŸ€—

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One of the first steps you need to take in order to begin enjoying the simple pleasures in life is to slow down. 😊

Take a moment to stop what you are doing. 🚫

1️⃣ Draw your attention to your breath (this will ground you in the current moment).

2️⃣ Notice your breath entering and leaving your body.

3️⃣ Next, firmly plant your feet on the ground and draw your attention to this sensation.

4️⃣ Keep your attention and awareness directed at the breath or your feet on the ground, any time it moves away draw it back with patience.

5️⃣ Continue on with your day. 

This is a great way to introduce mindfulness into your life, you are simply making sure that your awareness is directed at the current moment. πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈ

#presentmoment #selfawareness #innerwork #livinginthemoment #mindfulmoment #emotionalintelligence #wellbeing #wanderingmind #quietthemind #meditationsoul #livinginthenow  #calmthemind #livemindfully #practicemindfulness #mindfulmeditation #mindfulness One of the first steps you need to take in order to begin enjoying the simple pleasures in life is to slow down. 😊

Take a moment to stop what you are doing. 🚫

1️⃣ Draw your attention to your breath (this will ground you in the current moment).

2️⃣ Notice your breath entering and leaving your body.

3️⃣ Next, firmly plant your feet on the ground and draw your attention to this sensation.

4️⃣ Keep your attention and awareness directed at the breath or your feet on the ground, any time it moves away draw it back with patience.

5️⃣ Continue on with your day. 

This is a great way to introduce mindfulness into your life, you are simply making sure that your awareness is directed at the current moment. πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈ

#presentmoment #selfawareness #innerwork #livinginthemoment #mindfulmoment #emotionalintelligence #wellbeing #wanderingmind #quietthemind #meditationsoul #livinginthenow  #calmthemind #livemindfully #practicemindfulness #mindfulmeditation #mindfulness
Flow states are moments when you are deeply connected & engaged in an activity, and therefore living in the present moment. 🧘

Whether it's sport, writing, drawing or even cleaning, flow states are a great reminder that mindful living doesn't always mean regular deep meditation - mindfulness is everywhere. πŸƒ

Read more ➑️ mindowl.org/effortless-meditation

#mindfulness #meditation #selfawareness #selfcompassion #innerwork #practicemindfulness #livinginthemoment #selflove #selfcare #mindfulmeditation #mindfulliving Flow states are moments when you are deeply connected & engaged in an activity, and therefore living in the present moment. 🧘

Whether it's sport, writing, drawing or even cleaning, flow states are a great reminder that mindful living doesn't always mean regular deep meditation - mindfulness is everywhere. πŸƒ

Read more ➑️ mindowl.org/effortless-meditation

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There are a number of breathwork exercises that aim to make you feel more energised. πŸƒ

These types of breathwork include the Wim Hof Method, the 5-3-3 technique, and β€˜Breath of Fire’. πŸ”₯

Energising breathwork practice is far more healthy than using caffeine or sugar to liven yourself up. πŸ₯€

So put down that cup of coffee, and give the incredible power of breathwork for energy a go. πŸ’ͺ

πŸ”΄ mindowl.org/breathwork-for-energy

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Putting in the maximum amount of continuous effort isn't always the answer, besides what society tells us.Β πŸ’­

The art of effortless meditation is about stopping the search for "more" and instead focusing on what you already have. Stop worrying or waiting for something greater than what's happening right now. πŸ’—

Wu Wei closely relates to the goal of effortless action. ✨

Find out more ➑️ mindowl.org/effortless-meditation

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We understand selfishness as lacking consideration for others and being concerned only with personal gain and pleasure, yet doing the things which contribute towards a genuinely happy and meaningful life, can be intelligently selfish. 

Doing what's best for others is the same as doing what's best for yourself. ✨

This can be practiced through Tonglen Meditation, which helps cultivate an inner peace of mind by extending compassion towards others. πŸ™

Find out more ➑️ mindowl.org/tonglen-meditation/

#meditation #mindfulness #peaceofmind #compassion #selfawareness #wellbeing #mindfulmoment #tonglenmeditation #quietthemind #selfacceptance #practicemindfulness #mindfulmeditation #dailycalm We understand selfishness as lacking consideration for others and being concerned only with personal gain and pleasure, yet doing the things which contribute towards a genuinely happy and meaningful life, can be intelligently selfish. 

Doing what's best for others is the same as doing what's best for yourself. ✨

This can be practiced through Tonglen Meditation, which helps cultivate an inner peace of mind by extending compassion towards others. πŸ™

Find out more ➑️ mindowl.org/tonglen-meditation/

#meditation #mindfulness #peaceofmind #compassion #selfawareness #wellbeing #mindfulmoment #tonglenmeditation #quietthemind #selfacceptance #practicemindfulness #mindfulmeditation #dailycalm
Change is inevitable. It is important to focus on our relationship to change, one of the certain elements of life. πŸ’­

To move with the fluctuation of life, change has to be embraced. We can choose to swim with the tide, or against it. 🧘

#mindfulness #meditation #selfawareness #selfcompassion #innerwork #practicemindfulness #livinginthemoment #selflove #selfcare #mindfulmeditation #inevitablechange Change is inevitable. It is important to focus on our relationship to change, one of the certain elements of life. πŸ’­

To move with the fluctuation of life, change has to be embraced. We can choose to swim with the tide, or against it. 🧘

#mindfulness #meditation #selfawareness #selfcompassion #innerwork #practicemindfulness #livinginthemoment #selflove #selfcare #mindfulmeditation #inevitablechange
There is so much more to life, so much to experience when we simply notice. Don't let life pass you by, be present and be human. πŸ’—

#quoteoftheday #quote #quotestoliveby #mindfulness #meditation #mindfulmeditation #livinginthemoment #quietthemind #mindfulmoment #livinginthenow #selfawareness #inspirationquotes #inspiration #innerpeace There is so much more to life, so much to experience when we simply notice. Don't let life pass you by, be present and be human. πŸ’—

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We live in such a busy and fast pace environment, that we look past the beauty around us. In every moment of life there is something to be grateful for, you just need to look to find it. 🌞

Slow down and appreciate the small things in life. This can lead to an overall feeling of contentment day-to-day. 

Write down three things you are grateful for every night before bed, and watch your life transform as you train your mind to see the positive in each moment. β˜•οΈ

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It’s important to follow some practical steps when seeking to achieve an intentional life. πŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Start by making more Towards moves, and less Away moves. Towards moves are healthy habits that align with the sort of person we want to be. πŸ€Έβ€β™‚οΈ

Away moves are ineffective and unhelpful; they hook us to difficult thoughts, emotions and behaviours. πŸ˜”

Consciously implementing intentional living can help reproduce more towards moves. πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ

πŸ”΄ mindowl.org/intentional-living

#mindfulness #happiness #inspiration #intentionalliving #lifestyle #wellbeing #selfcare #mindfulmoment #presentmoment #innerwork #learn #practice #calmthemind #peacefulness #groundyourself It’s important to follow some practical steps when seeking to achieve an intentional life. πŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Start by making more Towards moves, and less Away moves. Towards moves are healthy habits that align with the sort of person we want to be. πŸ€Έβ€β™‚οΈ

Away moves are ineffective and unhelpful; they hook us to difficult thoughts, emotions and behaviours. πŸ˜”

Consciously implementing intentional living can help reproduce more towards moves. πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ

πŸ”΄ mindowl.org/intentional-living

#mindfulness #happiness #inspiration #intentionalliving #lifestyle #wellbeing #selfcare #mindfulmoment #presentmoment #innerwork #learn #practice #calmthemind #peacefulness #groundyourself
Tonglen meditation is a type of ancient practice focused on compassion. It is a type of visualisation that enhances feelings of compassion towards others. 😌

The word Tonglen is Tibetan for "sending and taking" which is exactly what this practice aims to do. It allows you to focus on the wellbeing of others, stepping away from the usual self-centred approach of our busy daily lives. πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈ

Follow this exercise to cultivate the power of Tonglen Meditation. 

Find out more ➑️ mindowl.org/tonglen-meditation/

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